“Let all things be done decently and in order.”

— Corinthians 14:40

SESSION PROTOCOL

WHAT IS BDSM PROTOCOL?

Protocol is a set of rules, rituals, or pre-determined formal behaviors that are deemed acceptable for a submissive. These rules ensure that the Domme/sub (D/s) dynamic is clearly established and maintained in and outside of a scene. Examples of protocol include speech and eye contact restrictions, gestures, and routines. Continue reading to learn what I’ll expect from you - and look forward to building personalized, meaningful protocols together.

  • All new clients are required to provide ID verification. My vetting process is quick, discrete, and non-negotiable. Your cooperation is always appreciated. Please provide the following:

    Option 1: Send A clear photo of your government-issued ID or drivers license to My secure, encrypted email. You may censor the DL or passport number and address for your privacy.

    Option 2: Verify via Skype for a $50 fee. This is not a session, but an option for visual verification online that takes about a minute. The fee is paid in full upfront before scheduling. I will be off cam, and you will be on cam to show your ID.

    Option 3: Verify via a full Skype session ($150 for 15min), including ID verification at the very beginning. This option includes a little playtime.

    When vetting is complete, your information is promptly deleted.

  • I require a 50% deposit to finalize your real-time or Skype booking. Be aware that your booking is not confirmed until a deposit is sent. Both cash and electronic payment is accepted.

    Upfront payment is required for virtual sessions.

    • Clients are expected to arrive on time, not early or late. A 5-minute grace period will apply. You will not be compensated for your failure to be punctual.

    • Arrive freshly bathed, nourished and hydrated. If you do not arrive clean (i.e. body odor, bad breath), you will use session time to fix it or I will cancel our session.

    • Display obedience, respect, and eagerness to serve at all times.

    • Ask meaningful questions to learn more about Me. Ask questions if you don’t understand something. Don’t make assumptions.

    • Take punishments gracefully and learn from them. They exist to make you better.

    • Always follow protocol.

    • Feel free to bring your own gear.

    • Gifts, tithes and offerings are tangible and expected displays of devotion.

    • Laugh! Have a good time! I want you to enjoy yourself.

    • You will present or send the remainder of your tribute immediately upon arrival. Cash will be inside of a gift bag, a book, or an unsealed envelope.

    • You will not touch yourself or remove your clothing without permission.

    • You will not make eye contact without permission.

    • You will use safe words/gestures if necessary.

    • You will provide a short, written reflection within 48 hours. This is for My personal record, and will not be shared publicly without consent.

    • You will always refer to Me using the honorifics “Supreme” or “Queen” unless in public. Using the incorrect honorific will result in punishment. If in public, you will refer to Me as “Miss Vee”.

    • You will respond to questions with “Yes/No [Honorific].” Avoid informal responses like “Yeah” and “Ok”.

    • You will open all doors for Me unless otherwise instructed.

    • You will ask permission before leaving My presence for any reason.

    • You will not make prolonged eye-contact with anyone unless speaking to them.

    • You will service Me before yourself. Fetch My food/drinks before your own.

    • You will wait to be granted permission to eat/drink when dining together.

    • You will never touch Me without permission.